Wednesday, May 13, 2009

how did my yesterday go...

why does an unreturned hug hurt so much?

and I thought hugs were the best way to say "I am sorry".

24 comments:

D said...

Unreturned hugs I guess usually make you feel that the person you're trying to hug doesn't care about you as much ... it hurts more when they push you away when you're trying to hug them ... hmmm...

Xeb said...

Which is why an unreturned hug hurts so much.

rain girl said...

@D... true. the "doesn't care" part pinches the most.

welcome here. :)

rain girl said...

@Xeb... oh they do. but then, hugs can undo so much hurt too.

welcome here, btw. :)

Anjali said...

sometimes when a person doesn't return a hug, its because he or she is awkward...thats all, so don't feel bad :)

AD said...

:(

hfm said...

I hate this feeling.
Sorry you're feeling this way.

sanely insane said...

u kno....when a girl has said sorry and the guy rebutts her...

later he doubles up...we feel very guilty and we really compensate for it...

so dont worry...he'll come and he'll come good

ananya chatterjee said...

coz sumthn more than a hug awaits u.....:)

rain girl said...

@Anjali.. how can my best friend be awkward with me?

rain girl said...

@Ad.. aww don't :) it's ok now.. she hugged me later.. :)

rain girl said...

@HFM... :) thanks. but it's all ok now. although, at that point, it felt like hell..

rain girl said...

@sanely insane.. why did u think the person was a guy?

it wasn't the case. half of the time, i get hurt by my (girl)friends (i hurt them a lot too i guess)...

it's all ok now. she hugged me the next day.

rain girl said...

@ananya.. awww that's the sweetest thing i have heard in a long time :D thankuu so much.. n welcome here :)

sanely insane said...

probably because we guys dont hug each other so much

rain girl said...

@sanely insane :P :P :P

ananya chatterjee said...

thanks........:)

rain girl said...

@ananaya.. you r welcome.. :)

ananya chatterjee said...

btw am addin u up if its nt too much of a prob

rain girl said...

@ananya.. wow.. oh wait, let me get my red cape..

*adjusts her tiara*

ya now u can add me :P

ananya chatterjee said...

:D, :P, :), ;)

Mark said...

Yes, an un-returned hug is one of the emptiness feelings in the world. It is because we allowed ourselves to be open and the other person shut us down. Still in the end it is better to love and not be loved in return than to not love at all.
Nameste.

rain girl said...

@mark.. namaste! truer words have never been said before..

..and welcome here :)

ani_aset said...

i could not agree more on this >:D<